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Everyone thinks that until Happy Hour ends and the tab is presented. :shocked:
Do you know how many months I have been waiting to drop that last line????? :chuckle:
Of course not!That's the only reason you even started this thread, isn't it?
Which denomination is that?
I don't often drink beer, but when I do... I prefer Dos XX.
Dont you think some here might be seen as authoritative on scripture, yet it seems no one here is concerned that his/her comments might be a stumbling block to one struggling with alcohol. What if an ex addict is reading, and feels liberty to start drinking again because everyone here that claims christ seems to think there is no problem with it. so this ex addict drinks a little and becomes a drunkard again. whose fault is that?It is best not to drink in the presence of either. For the first, if you are seen an authoritative figure spiritually (pastor for example) - you could become a stumbling block for them, even if only temporarily. For the second, you should not go around tempting people with their weaknesses - you should not lead people to sin.Originally Posted by lowerlevel
But what about
"Is it a sin to drink alcohol in the presence of those who think it is a sin."
OR
"Is it a sin to drink alcohol in the presence of one who struggles with alcoholism"
I think both are situational but the second question is a bit more obvious than the first.
Dont you think some here might be seen as authoritative on scripture, yet it seems no one here is concerned that his/her comments might be a stumbling block to one struggling with alcohol. What if an ex addict is reading, and feels liberty to start drinking again because everyone here that claims christ seems to think there is no problem with it. so this ex addict drinks a little and becomes a drunkard again. whose fault is that?
and re: drinking in front of those who think it is a sin... isnt talking about how much you drink just as bad? So if any brother is offended by reading this thread, who is at fault?
dude... I wasnt intending to place any responsibility ... are they not valid questions?I know recovering alcoholics. None of them would even imagine someone else is at fault for tempting them by drinking in front of them...if they weren't even aware they were alcoholics in the first place.
And even if you were aware and were so lacking in good manners as to do that anyway...they'd just leave. Though most I know would be thoughtful enough to inform you of just what measure of jerk you are before they left your presence.
Dude, I think you're placing responsibility where it just doesn't belong.
As for your other point, I think you're missing the subtle difference between avoiding offending others and allowing the offense of others to unreasonably dictate your behavior. In this politically correct environment especially it should be well established people can be offended at the most innocuous things.
Dont you think some here might be seen as authoritative on scripture, yet it seems no one here is concerned that his/her comments might be a stumbling block to one struggling with alcohol. What if an ex addict is reading, and feels liberty to start drinking again because everyone here that claims christ seems to think there is no problem with it. so this ex addict drinks a little and becomes a drunkard again. whose fault is that?
and re: drinking in front of those who think it is a sin... isnt talking about how much you drink just as bad? So if any brother is offended by reading this thread, who is at fault?
I know recovering alcoholics. None of them would even imagine someone else is at fault for tempting them by drinking in front of them...if they weren't even aware they were alcoholics in the first place.
And even if you were aware and were so lacking in good manners as to do that anyway...they'd just leave. Though most I know would be thoughtful enough to inform you of just what measure of jerk you are before they left your presence.
Dude, I think you're placing responsibility where it just doesn't belong.
As for your other point, I think you're missing the subtle difference between avoiding offending others and allowing the offense of others to unreasonably dictate your behavior. In this politically correct environment especially it should be well established people can be offended at the most innocuous things.
So you would speak for all addicts?...I know recovering alcoholics. None of them would even imagine someone else is at fault for tempting them by drinking in front of them...if they weren't even aware they were alcoholics in the first place.
not sure we are on the same page... Im not talking about political correctness, Im talking about offending your christian brother in the biblical sense.As for your other point, I think you're missing the subtle difference between avoiding offending others and allowing the offense of others to unreasonably dictate your behavior. In this politically correct environment especially it should be well established people can be offended at the most innocuous things.
No one is saying its ok to get drunk. If you are a drunkard, then of course you need to stay away from it - because you can't control yourself. If an ex-addict starts drinking again and goes out of control again - it is no ones fault but his own.
For the second part - if such people are on a site such as this, they had better expect to see people on both sides of the spectrum. If he is offended - it is his own fault for being on such a site.
Do I have to speak for all of them or just those that aren't prone to hysteria?So you would speak for all addicts?...
I thought we were talking about offending alcoholics. But okay, point still stands. Christian alcoholics aren't, to my knowledge, any more prone to offense in this than non-Christian alcoholics.not sure we are on the same page... Im not talking about political correctness, Im talking about offending your christian brother in the biblical sense.
(2 Corinthians 6:3) giving no cause for offense in anything, so that the ministry will not be discredited,
dont know, but I certainly had a different experience when I worked for a rehab clinic. I dont think they would be justified to blame a relapse on someone else, but I would also cringe if I was somehow a cause for the relapseDo I have to speak for all of them or just those that aren't prone to hysteria?
Nope. It's just a sin to become intoxicated or addicted by it.
dont you think thats a bit of a stretch?The recommendation in the N.T. is to drink a little wine so as to alter one's level of consciousness (i.e. to become intoxicated).