That's not what you asked me.
I asked you: Anywhere in the story of Abraham, Sarai/Sarah, and Hagar, ever, and I mean ever, did Abraham go to the Lord and talk to Him about the situation, before he obeyed Sarai/Sarah?
And you answered with 'after' the fact, facts.
Exactly as your irrelevant: 'Other than having to put up with Sarah's temper, she might have been glad she didn't have to have sex with and hang out around an ole dude all the time.'
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As I read somewhere:
1. Sarai loses all hope of God's promise being fulfilled in her life. God has spoken to her husband saying, "A son will come from your own body." Sarai must have thought, "God only spoke to my husband; He didn't speak to me. My time is gone; I am beyond the age of childbearing. What should I do?" She counsels her husband to sleep with her Egyptian maidservant Hagar. "I will build a family through her."
2. No questions asked. No consultation with the Lord. Just do what the neighbors do. "He slept with Hagar, and she conceived."
3. "When Hagar knew she was pregnant, she began to despise her mistress [Sarai]." The rivalry begins.
4. Sarai blames Abram for this development: "You are responsible for the wrong I am suffering . . . May the Lord judge between you and me."
5. Abram shamelessly absolves himself from all responsibility, washing his hands of the whole affair. "Your servant is in your hands . . . Do with her whatever you think best." [What a good husband was Abraham to Hagar, wouldn't you say.]
6. "Then Sarai mistreated Hagar." Anger, frustration, violence, either verbal, physical, or both, rule the day.
7. Hagar fled from Sarai her mistress. Abram was chosen to be the instrument of blessing to all mankind. Hagar fled from her only source of blessing.
What a list of missteps:
-Take matters in your own hands. (Sarai)
-Do not bother to consult the Lord. (Abram)
-Be proud. Become a rival. (Hagar)
-Blame someone else for your mistake. (Sarai)
-Refuse to accept responsibility for your child. (Abram)
-Give way to anger. Be abusive. (Sarai)
-Do not repent. Run away. (Hagar)
What an example Abraham, Sarai/Sarah, Hagar left us NOT to follow.