It seems like you're looking for excuses instead of knowledge.
The definition of a "person" is not that difficult. A person has these attributes (not an exhaustive list):
- Consciousness
- The ability to speak and listen
- Reason
- Will
God the Father speaks to His Son and the Son speaks to His Father.
The Holy Spirit was lied to (Acts 5:3). You cannot lie to anything but a person.
There are MANY, MANY demonstrations of this throughout scripture.
Luke 22:42 (AKJV/PCE)
(22:42) Saying, Father, if thou be willing, remove this cup from me: nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done.
TWO wills defined in that verse: the Fathers and the Sons.