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torrent85

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God's sins?

Psalms 5:4-6
4 You are not a God who takes pleasure in evil;
with you the wicked cannot dwell.

5 The arrogant cannot stand in your presence;
you hate all who do wrong.

6 You destroy those who tell lies;
bloodthirsty and deceitful men
the LORD abhors.
 

chrysostom

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God's sins?

Psalms 5:4-6
4 You are not a God who takes pleasure in evil;
with you the wicked cannot dwell.

5 The arrogant cannot stand in your presence;
you hate all who do wrong.

6 You destroy those who tell lies;
bloodthirsty and deceitful men
the LORD abhors.

God does not hate
 

torrent85

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if you don't bring some common sense to the Bible, you will have to conclude that Jesus is a lamb

Shall we continue on hate.

Proverbs 6:16-19

16 There are six things the LORD hates,
seven that are detestable to him:

17 haughty eyes,
a lying tongue,
hands that shed innocent blood,

18 a heart that devises wicked schemes,
feet that are quick to rush into evil,

19 a false witness who pours out lies
and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers.


Jesus is the Lamb.

John 1:29
The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him and said, "Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!
 

TeeJay

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Let me regress to an event in my life as a teen for a moment. There was a preacher in town (well known today) who through our church was leading a revival. One evening, he was preaching vehemently on the evils of various sins, including homosexuality. He was literally screaming and yelling at the audience and shaking his fist. I remember wondering as a kid, "Why is he so angry at us?". I felt afraid of him and God- to me, he represented God and his anger was all I could see.

Then, during the sermon where he was raging about homosexuals, a couple of my friends got up and walked out - they had another event they were supposed to go to. Their parents sent them to this other event as it had been planned in advance. When this pastor saw them leave, he immediately pointed them out and called them homosexuals and said they were leaving because they were evil and would not listen to the truth. The audience was horrified! We all knew these girls! Nothing could be further from the truth! The pastor went too far because he allowed his own feelings get in the way of his preaching. By his angry speech and actions he painted a picture of God as a big cosmic angry, fire-breathing, unforgiving God.

Later in his life, this pastor changed. He had some deeper experience with God and his preaching and focus changed. He was not angry anymore. He is gentle and loving and has a wonderful ministry feeding hungry children in Africa. He did not change his mind about the evils of sin and homosexuality. He just finally realized that anger in the heart, even towards sinners, will eat you up.

My point is, I think we have to be very careful with hatred. It can be a feeling and an action. It can lead to us acting in ways that are contrary to scripture.

I have three words for this post: Hollywood psycho babble.

I'm retired law enforcement. Hollywood tells us "if you don't forgive, it will eat you up inside." What eats at a Christian is when he or she is taught the false doctrine that they are to forgive everyone and they are not to hate anyone. When they are unable to follow these false teachings, they feel condemned. I was teaching a Bible class one night in Denver on "Forgiveness." A young man came up to me after the class. (A business partner of his had stolen $10,000 from him.) He asked, "You mean I don't have to forgive him or love him?" I told him that when his partner repented and paid back the money, then he had to forgive and love him. He was so relieved. He told me that he had tried to forgive him but could not, and it condemned him because he was under the false teaching that he had to forgive and love the unrepentant.

Jesus said that if your brother sins against you, REBUKE him. Don't forgive him. Jesus then said, "And IF, IF, IF, he repents, forgive him. Now listen carefully: Jesus did not command us to forgive so that it will make us feel good. Phoney, self-righteous love is what makes you feel good. Phoney, self-righteous forgiveness is what makes you feel good. Forgiveness is not to make the forgiver feel good; its to get the unrepentant sinner to repent. This is why Jesus said to rebuke and forgive only the repentant.

I had a partner who worked for the Dade County PD in Flordia. He had to shoot an armed criminal who was trying to shoot him. My friend got off the first shot. He related to me that it did not eat at his heart for a moment. He was elated that he had gotten to go home to his wife and kids that night. But they still made him see a shrink. Not forgiving the wicked, hating the unrepentant wicked WILL NOT EAT YOU UP unless you've watched too many Hollywood movies.

Read some of King David's paslms and writings. He sure had a lot of hatred for the wicked. And God said that he was a man after God's own heart. Paul should have been eaten up. Why? Because at the end of his ministry, he warned Timothy of Alexander the Coppersmith. While the Bible does not reveal what Alexander did to Paul, Paul did not love Alexander nor did he ever forgave him.

Loving everyone and forgiving everyone is self-righteousness--pure and simple. I can relate a story to show this: Cathy Sanders worked in the federal building in Oklahoma that Timothy McVeigh blew up. In the bombing, her two grandchildren were killed. I watched her on a Christian TV show relate how she visited Timothy McVeigh shortly before he was executed. She boasted how she had told Timothy McVeigh that she forgave him.

First, while my heart goes out to her for her loss, self-righteousness was oozng from her pores. "Just look at how good I am. I even forgave the man who killed my grandchildren." First, she had no standing to forgive him. The two grandchildren, whom he killed, had standing to forgive him, but they're not here. Cathy Sanders can forgive Timothy only for the hurt that was caused to her. And Timothy can't be forgiven by Cathy, her grandchildren, or God UNLESS HE REPENTED. Timothy McVeigh went to his execution muttering some nonsence: "If I go to hell, so be it. I will adapt and survive."

This is what you get from false Bible teachers. Now if Cathy went on Oprah, she would get a standing O. Be suspicious of any Bible teaching that will get you a standing O on Oprah.

God bless, Tom from Mabank, TX
 

TeeJay

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You wrote, "...God by way of Christ..." Jesus Christ is God. And God hates the wicked. His word says so.

God bless, Tom from Mabank, TX
 

TeeJay

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Isn't it natural to hate?
and shouldn't it be the way that someone expresses it, that should be judged

No! How you express it matters not. It is WHY you hate. You should not hate "without cause," OF COURSE. You should hate the unrepentant child molesting sodomizer with RIGHTEOUS INDIGNATION!

God bless, Tom from Mabank, TX
 

Sozo III

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I have three words for this post: Hollywood psycho babble.

I'm retired law enforcement. Hollywood tells us "if you don't forgive, it will eat you up inside." What eats at a Christian is when he or she is taught the false doctrine that they are to forgive everyone and they are not to hate anyone. When they are unable to follow these false teachings, they feel condemned. I was teaching a Bible class one night in Denver on "Forgiveness." A young man came up to me after the class. (A business partner of his had stolen $10,000 from him.) He asked, "You mean I don't have to forgive him or love him?" I told him that when his partner repented and paid back the money, then he had to forgive and love him. He was so relieved. He told me that he had tried to forgive him but could not, and it condemned him because he was under the false teaching that he had to forgive and love the unrepentant.

Jesus said that if your brother sins against you, REBUKE him. Don't forgive him. Jesus then said, "And IF, IF, IF, he repents, forgive him. Now listen carefully: Jesus did not command us to forgive so that it will make us feel good. Phoney, self-righteous love is what makes you feel good. Phoney, self-righteous forgiveness is what makes you feel good. Forgiveness is not to make the forgiver feel good; its to get the unrepentant sinner to repent. This is why Jesus said to rebuke and forgive only the repentant.

I had a partner who worked for the Dade County PD in Flordia. He had to shoot an armed criminal who was trying to shoot him. My friend got off the first shot. He related to me that it did not eat at his heart for a moment. He was elated that he had gotten to go home to his wife and kids that night. But they still made him see a shrink. Not forgiving the wicked, hating the unrepentant wicked WILL NOT EAT YOU UP unless you've watched too many Hollywood movies.

Read some of King David's paslms and writings. He sure had a lot of hatred for the wicked. And God said that he was a man after God's own heart. Paul should have been eaten up. Why? Because at the end of his ministry, he warned Timothy of Alexander the Coppersmith. While the Bible does not reveal what Alexander did to Paul, Paul did not love Alexander nor did he ever forgave him.

Loving everyone and forgiving everyone is self-righteousness--pure and simple. I can relate a story to show this: Cathy Sanders worked in the federal building in Oklahoma that Timothy McVeigh blew up. In the bombing, her two grandchildren were killed. I watched her on a Christian TV show relate how she visited Timothy McVeigh shortly before he was executed. She boasted how she had told Timothy McVeigh that she forgave him.

First, while my heart goes out to her for her loss, self-righteousness was oozng from her pores. "Just look at how good I am. I even forgave the man who killed my grandchildren." First, she had no standing to forgive him. The two grandchildren, whom he killed, had standing to forgive him, but they're not here. Cathy Sanders can forgive Timothy only for the hurt that was caused to her. And Timothy can't be forgiven by Cathy, her grandchildren, or God UNLESS HE REPENTED. Timothy McVeigh went to his execution muttering some nonsence: "If I go to hell, so be it. I will adapt and survive."

This is what you get from false Bible teachers. Now if Cathy went on Oprah, she would get a standing O. Be suspicious of any Bible teaching that will get you a standing O on Oprah.

God bless, Tom from Mabank, TX
Someone needs to give this a POTD :first:

Brilliantly stated. :thumb:
 

TeeJay

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I agree with all you said - my earlier post says the same thing in that Love is not an emotion, it is action. When you protect the innocent by putting a rapist (etc) in jail or someone is executed for murder, it is not based on hatred of the person, it is based on protection of society. I totally agree that part of the problem with society today is people have the idea that all men are basically good instead of the truth that all men are basically depraved. When I was a teacher, I was told I should not use a red pen to grade or tell the kids that an answer was "wrong" as that might hurt the kids self-esteem. Baloney! If you never tell someone what they are doing is wrong, they will not learn. We have a whole generation of adults who think of themselves as "good" and who blame others for anything that goes wrong in their lives and who are incredibly narcissistic because of this philosophy.

My contention with the word "hate" does not mean I do not believe in capital punishment for murderers and life imprisonment for pedophiles who hurt children. It does not mean I do not abhor these crimes or the individuals that commit them. It does mean I don't think Christians should let hate seethe in their hearts towards others or when talking to people about Christ who are lost and involved in open sin that our emphasis is on hatred of the person himself and our contempt for what he/she is doing. I think we actually agree with each other! I just do not like the word "hate" in connection with Christian speech - it is too close to the rhetoric of "skin heads" and bigots.

Just one point: God has no problem with the word "hate." He, unashamedly and unabashedly hates the wicked and has no problem using the word: Ps. 5:5, 6: 11:5; 34:16; 45:7; 139:20-22; Prov 6:16:19; Ho. 9:13; Lev. 26:27-30; 2 Chr. 19:2.

The homosexuals have stolen and tarnished the word "gay." So I go out of my way to let everyone know that I am a gay person, but I am not a filthy homosexual pervert. We, as Christians, should not shy away from using God's word because skin heads or bigots have co-opted it. Skinheads hate the righteous; Christians should hate the wicked skinheads. They hate good; we hate evil. When we shy away from using God's word as He uses it, then we are guilty of being offended by His word. We are ashamed of it.

God bless, Tom from Mabank, TX
 

TeeJay

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Thank you, SOZO. I'm glad someone is listening. I feel like a voice crying in the wilderness.

God bless, Tom from Mabank, TX
 

freelight

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Love consumes all

Love consumes all

God does not hate

Indeed, if God's nature is Love itself,...Love can only do as its innate nature is capable of, willing its most true expressions of itself eternally and infinitely. This Love is unconditional and unchanging. Consider the Infinity of Love. - this universal Reality transcends any mortal-concept of love or hate, being above all duality.

As to the thread-title question: If the supreme law is Love...and Jesus and other inspired teachers taught us to love "all"..they knowing the divine law....then it is for us to accept and obey as we understand and live that divine principle.

It is only wrong to 'hate' when this attitude violates or transgresses the law of love that we could be embodying and expressing at any moment. 'Hate' is a natural human 'reaction' towards something or someone, inspired within any number of situations, however...it is how one reacts and chooses to express themselves that counts, each circumstance being unique. Yet the universal principle of Love which Jesus teaches holds thru-out, encompassing all, even as the sun's rays shine on all, - its only in this way that we prove ourselves to be children of God. - hence the loving of our enemies and those who do us harm.

One can hate on any relative level as loathing this or that (natural human reactions), but Love is to be the all-encompassing/transcending light that one extends and radiates, as a child of God. Evil, wickedness, sin, etc....will be absolved and mediated by the Ultimacy of Love. Love outshines all. Hatred or disdain will come and go, but 'God' is the Fire that consumes all. In the Spirit, we are always brought to the divine Center....where there is only love, peace and joy. These eternal qualities prevail over all that is unrighteous or unreal...and will ultimately quench all hatred.

Knight quotes:

A time to love, And a time to hate; A time of war, And a time of peace. - Ecclesiastes 3:8

The writer of this book was sharing his general observations of human experience, so agree with much of what he 'saw' relative to his time, the natural procession of life and its seasons of difference. However he (Solomon) and even David in the psalms have a limited perspective conditioned by their own experience and knowledge of their time, which later revelations of truth and wisdom have transcended and given us a better picture of reality and religious conduct. How we love and hate NOW in this generation shall count for fulfilling the will of God in this dispensation. However we think or act.....we shall reap what we sow accordingly (universal law).

You can let hate or love consume you.



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Loving everyone and forgiving everyone is self-righteousness--pure and simple.
It can be. Though someone might see your posture, specifically as you illustrate it in dealing with Cathy Sanders and her loss, as a little self righteous, don't you think?
I can relate a story to show this: Cathy Sanders worked in the federal building in Oklahoma that Timothy McVeigh blew up. In the bombing, her two grandchildren were killed. I watched her on a Christian TV show relate how she visited Timothy McVeigh shortly before he was executed. She boasted how she had told Timothy McVeigh that she forgave him.
That you call her sharing of forgiveness a boast goes a long way toward my not finding your next statement particularly credible.
First, while my heart goes out to her for her loss, self-righteousness was oozng from her pores.
I think you're right there, except in your aim. On the upside, she'd probably forgive you for it. :plain:
"Just look at how good I am. I even forgave the man who killed my grandchildren."
Way to look into her heart and find it wanting. Shame on you. Literally, shame on you.
First, she had no standing to forgive him.
I don't believe she intoned that because of her action he was free of sin. Else, it's her business how she approaches him, be it in understandable anger or in the spirit of one hopeful for the fate of his soul. I think we all know which is harder to do.
The two grandchildren, whom he killed, had standing to forgive him, but they're not here.
You seem so interested in making your larger point (which isn't without merit) that you're using the wrong illustration and methodology in the attempt, forcing your preconception on it and us as though it were gospel
Cathy Sanders can forgive Timothy only for the hurt that was caused to her.
What did she actually say that led you to believe she was doing more than exactly that?
And Timothy can't be forgiven by Cathy, her grandchildren, or God UNLESS HE REPENTED.
Nope. That's not scriptural. You are to forgive someone if they ask, but there's no verse forbidding you to do so unless they ask.
Timothy McVeigh went to his execution muttering some nonsence: "If I go to hell, so be it. I will adapt and survive."
Then he missed his opportunity. She didn't.
 

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The opposite of love is not hate, it is apathy. We are commanded to even hate our own flesh. Sin and sinner are one. You cannot hate sin, without hating the sinner.
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You could not be more wrong if you were a Mormon. Jesus said, "Bring those enemies of Mine before Me who would not serve Me, and slay them with the sword." A sword is not for flogging; it's for beheading. Here Jesus is not lopping off sin; He's lopping of heads.

On Judgment Day, Jesus will not send the sin to hell. He will send the SINNER to hell. "Love he sinner but hate the sin" is a cliche that is not in the Bible. It's a cute cliche first uttered by Gandhi who is a Hindu. While it sounds good, it is 180 degrees opposite of God's word.

You argument about judging is also wrong. Jesus was talking to hypocritical Pharisees who were judging a widow for not tithing while they had mistresses on the side. Jesus said that they should get the log out of their own eyes and then they could judge the widow. Jesus did not tell them NOT TO JUDGE, for He admonished that after they got their act cleaned up, they were not to leave the speck in their brother's eye.

If you don't judge, you can't rebuke, witness, or forgive.

God bless, Tom from Mabank, TX

God bless, Tom from Mabank, TX
:BRAVO:

if you don't bring some common sense to the Bible, you will have to conclude that Jesus is a lamb
You're a moron. For you to speak of common sense is the perfect illustration of irony.
 

Lighthouse

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Nope. That's not scriptural. You are to forgive someone if they ask, but there's no verse forbidding you to do so unless they ask.
This is nothing but lawyerspeak. The command of God on forgiveness states that we forgive if they repent. This does not give us the freedom to forgive otherwise simply because it doesn't state that we can't. To say we can is circular logic that is not logical at all.

[Jesus]Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him.[/Jesus]
-Luke 17:3
 
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