That's adorable ... how hard you try to make this all about those mean woman and long suffering guys. Seriously.
Anyways, no worries.  I have been divorced since December 10, 1985 and received sole 
physical custody of the two children we had in the marriage.  Outside of the minimal amount of child support received, I got what I wanted.  The children.
As far as my youngest daughter, I received sole physical AND legal custody of her.  
The two homes that I own will go where they should when I am gone: to *my* children.  What I got and left with from the marriage was by far the most valuable.  The children.  
 There have been no multiple marriages.  One was enough.  At this point I would not remarry for the sole purpose of love.  There would have to be some financial gain
There have been no multiple marriages.  One was enough.  At this point I would not remarry for the sole purpose of love.  There would have to be some financial gain.