I'm really not arguing for anarchy per se, as it is my belief there is no such thing as how the word is defined...
I am the government of my house As an example.
Yes. I see government as first and foremost authorized penalties. iow, government are people who are authorized to inflict penalties upon other people.
Within your house, I presume as 'head of household' or something like this, you in a way possess the authorization to inflict penalties upon those who live with you.
And immediately the need for some government over you, becomes apparent. What if you decide the penalty is execution for some infraction? Do you have the right to kill as a penalty?
And republicanism (small R) is the form of democracy practiced most among democracies, and the American republic operates according to inalienable rights, and does not permit government to penalize anybody such that their inalienable rights are infringed, and also we authorize government to penalize anyone who infringes someone else's inalienable right to life[, limb], liberty, and the pursuit of happiness (aka religious liberty), among many others.
If you and your neighbors were the only people around your area, such that there was no government, then I think your collective political will would create government of some sort, to deal with the fact that, in the light of inalienable rights, there is a need for some people to be authorized to inflict penalties upon others, and this authorization would take the form of law, that explicates hopefully clearly what authorizes government to inflict penalties, and what those penalties are authorized to be.
This is why I said that anarchy would inevitable "devolve" into government at some point, when people without any government are left to their own devices.
Because all the alternatives to republicanism are worse than republicanism. And I think American republicanism is the pick of the litter the world round, and that other republican governments ought to take our republicanism as a starting point. They should "peg" their republicanism to ours. Whatever laws we have, however we deal with things, whatever rights we recognize, affirm, protect, and defend, they also ought to do things in the same way.