You still dont get it. God gives repentance to whomever He wills !The first stage in getting help from God is to beg for help. It seems inconsistent to say those who turn to God and beg for help were turned to God by God before they even wanted help. God does not make men turn to Him, but He does command all men to repent and turn to Jesus.
And the times of this ignorance God winked at; but now commandeth all men every where to repent: