LOL!
This is the most hilarious definition of "reconciliation" I have ever seen presented.
Pate's definition is the opposite of the meaning of reconciliation . . .
If God had done so, all of humanity would not be so currently destroying themselves, as they are in ungodly fashion.
Duh . . .
Nang, you have a zeal for God, but it is not according to the Gospel.
Jesus is your justifier and reconciler. When Jesus entered into heaven you entered in with him. Your humanity was constituted in him. Jesus is your substitute and representative.
This is why Paul wrote to the Colossians,
"You are complete in him" Colossians 2:10.
God now sees you as perfect and complete in Jesus Christ and reconciled unto him.
If you are spiritually in heaven with Christ, Ephesians 2:6, Then there is no reason for you or anyone to be predestinated.
Repent from Calvinism and believe the Gospel.