I'm not the least bit astonished at yours or at your dismissal of the lesson that Jesus taught about hating our enemies:
Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; that ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so? Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.
Your walk needs a bit of correction, to say the least. You're not being obedient. You're imperfect. Your logic is flawed, far more so than those you're attempting to accuse of having flawed logic. We don't hate humans, since God may cause anyone to repent tomorrow and use them to do the job we should have been doing (winning souls) and anyone who thinks they stand in perfection may just find himself standing on sand tomorrow. We need to walk in love and perfect our ability to love, not chase after ways to find fault and foment hatred amongst the brethren. In so doing we become the accuser of the brethren rather than their deliverer. I'm simply astonished at your disdain for anything which might infringe upon your pet theology. You don't seem to have an open mind to be able to discuss anything but rather jump at the chance to tear at someone's jugular if their opinion clashes with yours. Not only do you NOT show the world that He lives in you since you're not displaying the love for your fellow-Christian that Jesus spoke of...
John 13:35
By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
... but you are showing the ones whom you're supposed to be winning to Christ that hatred is what Christianity is all about. You're mis-representing Christ to the world. You should be ashamed.
The Lord invites us to come and reason together with Him...
Isaiah 1:18
Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
Have you come to Him in repentance? Have you? It doesn't seem like you have. His repentance is a lesson that stays with Christians, their whole life. We repent every time He shows us our sin. Humility is the currency of Heaven. It is what Christ demonstrated for us for 33 years. He served others. He didn't spout hatred and disdain. He certainly could have, but the 'holier-than-thou' attitude is a smoke in His nose...
Isaiah 65:5
Which say, Stand by thyself, come not near to me; for I am holier than thou. These are a smoke in my nose, a fire that burneth all the day.
Every time we slip and He points it out to us we repent. We seek His help in reasoning out what to do. We seek His plan and His purpose in every single problem in our life. There is nothing too big or too small to take to Him. He wants us to rely upon Him, not our own reasoning. Not our own intellect. Not our own image of Him. His Word. His Presence. His Truth. If we rely upon our flesh we have nothing.