Why do you insist on being such a simple simpleton? Equally capable godly scholars through the years have agreed that wishing one a happy birthday is of great importance and signifies that your fellow man is valued.
What does your screen name mean?Wrong assumptions lead to wrong conclusions.Your views are held by some, but not the historic, orthodox church.. You are making our views diametrically opposed, when they are actually close (apart from difficult believism, and geasy law-ism,which is a different issue than salvific paradigms). The problem is your inability to think and lack of theological sophistication, not my view itself. You are clearly confused about our position because you are importing your wrong, shallow understanding and superimposing it on our views, which is not what you are claiming it is. Be balanced, and think biblical hermeneutics, in context.
Who is your pastor?