I have not misunderstood you at all.
This non-Cal believes that the Holy Spirit convinces and convicts a person that they are a sinner, that they are condemned to Hell by God because of their sin, that they need a savior, that salvation is by repentance and faith in the finished work of Jesus on the cross. Every step of the way the Holy Spirit is drawing the sinner.
At some point there is a moment where it all clicks into place, all things become clear, the TRUTH is revealed and saving faith results in the sinner. At this moment God regenerates the sinner. Man does not "flip the switch", God does it.
I am but pointing out the logical conclusion of your own words. You assume you possess the ability to be convinced and convicted before you are quickened to spiritual life. Hence, you assume you are not quite spiritually dead, only wounded, retaining some moral ability to be convinced, be convicted, such that you have faith and are then born anew (regenerated).
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Jesus answered him, Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John 3:3). The word
again (
anothen) literally means “
from above.” Unlike our first birth, which is horizontal, divine rebirth is vertical—it comes “
from above.” The origin of regeneration is supernatural, not the natural work of our volition (being convinced, being convicted, etc.). “
Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change” (James 1:17).
Like Nicodemus some argue from a
process perspective, as in the birthing labor and delivery process. But note that Jesus uses the word,
gennao (born), that refers to the concept of generational descent. He focuses
not on the birth process or experience that one may assume, but on the fact that the father’s nature is passed to the child.
What kind of birth is Jesus referring to? A birth in which the Divine nature is imparted to the soul.
Our Lord states that our first birth reproduced in us the nature of our parents: “
...that which is born of the flesh is flesh.” But, then He concludes that our new birth implants within us the Divine nature: “
...and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.” The thrust of the argument should be clear: regeneration is supernatural. Only the Holy Spirit can effect a change of nature of the heart, not our “
volitional will”.
As Jesus states, without the new birth, no one will be saved. He uses a strong term,
dei (must), indicating
a logical necessity, that regeneration is essential, absolutely necessary for salvation. Some will argue that Nicodemus should take personal responsibility for his own new birth.
But nowhere do we find Christ instructing Nicodemus to take personal responsibility and make a decision using his volitional will. “
You must be born again”
is a declarative statement of fact, not an imperative command to be obeyed. Christ, instead of suggesting Nicodemus take ownership of his situation and do something about it, is teaching exactly the opposite. Christ is teaching that new birth is a necessity, but no man can cause it to happen, even if a man could figure out how to return to the womb. Only God can perform this work.
One may complain that Christ telling someone about the necessity to be born again, then also telling them that they have no ability to produce such a work is self-defeating and contradictory.
On the contrary, Christ’s objective was to expose the fallacies of trusting in one’s own efforts and works for salvation. If only being religious and devoted to keeping the law could save a person, Nicodemus was safe, but Christ clearly states that no one is safe, regardless of their works, religious fervor, etc.
Because of universal sin, a new birth is a necessity and the debilitating effects of universal sin means no one has the ability to rescue himself. John 3:7 teaches a sinner’s only hope for eternal bliss is through the sovereign grace of God.
The “
new birth” is no more or less than the sovereign and direct work of the Holy Spirit. Regeneration (re-birth, quickening) is immediate. Faith is the gracious gift of God in regeneration (Ephesians 2:8),
the first fruit of regeneration.
The sinner responds to the life-giving voice of the Jesus Christ (John 5:25) just as Lazarus immediately responded to the command of Jesus in John 11.
It is an involuntary response, a perfect obedience to the divine imperative of Christ.
God is the active cause; the sinner is the passive recipient.
This is the grace that is irresistible. God’s gift of faith enables the newborn soul of a person to function spiritually, an ability the person did not have prior to his quickening (John 3:3b; John 3:5b; I Corinthians 2:14). The gift also gives the person the ability to believe, that is "
ears to hear" (Revelations 2:7; Revelations 2:11; Proverbs 20:12; Matthew 11:15). The gospel good news is, subsequently, addressed to the regenerated (Acts 2:39; Acts 13:16; Acts 13:26), for the unregenerate cannot believe (John. 8:43; John 10:26; Romans 3:10-18).
Accordingly, we see that regeneration is
a birth (John. 3:3-8; John 1:13; I Peter 1:23-25; I John 3:9; I John 5:1),
a creation (Ephesians 2:10; 2 Corinthians 5:17; Ephesians 4:24), the Divine creative act of speaking into existence that which previously did not exist,
a resurrection (Ephesians 2:1; I John 3:14; John 5:24), the Divine act of giving life to one who is dead in their trespasses and in their sins. All the images, birth, creation, resurrection, speak to the immediacy of God’s work of grace in the soul. Did the baby play an active role in his own birth, or what the baby a passive party in the work of external factors bringing about his birth? Did man help God create the universe or was that creation the sole work of God? Can man raise the dead to life or the corpse of Lazarus play an active role in his own resurrection? No, for God and only God is the active party, the only Creator, and life-giver.
Jesus says in John 5:25, "
Truly, truly, I say to you, an hour is coming, and is now here, when the dead will hear the voice of the Son of God, and those who hear will live.” He teaches here that God’s
effectual calling is always successful when He calls the dead in sin to spiritual life, that the dead will hear His voice (not the preacher, or the parent, or the personal witness), that there will be life, and that it is an irresistible certainty.
AMR