You say that a lot, you know, "you're fine", "he's going to be fine".  I find it curious.  Where does that come from, I wonder?  I give you the benefit of the doubt in that I believe it comes from a caring heart and a man deeply imbued with the need to take care of and oversee people.  I did sort of wonder, however, if it was a lawyer sort of thing.  When I lived in Richmond, two friends of mine in a law firm there bore the same trait.  They were wonderful but sadly, time and distance (I moved away) created too much difficulty maintaining the friendships.  I let them go or they let me go, I'm not sure which.  LOL