I can't believe you actually want to converse with someone this way. May God help you. I'm here to have a little friendly christian fellowship, not debate the basic meaning of English words and basic points of faith and life.
You think there's a difference?
My comment stands on it's own. It says what I meant for it to say.
The dollar bills printed in the USA belong to the government, even when you hold them. This is a basic fact. It's not even something worth talking about. How can you find entertainment in this? Defacing currency like dollars and coins is illegal for the reason that you don't own them. You own things that you have an official deed or document that has notary. You own a car or house when you have the legal contract. You don't own money because there is no contract. it is state governed, hence sales tax.
Except for the last part, OK. True destroying our fancy paper is illegal. But also it happens all the time, by our government, who collects fancy paper our banks have judged are fit to be destroyed, and therefore replaced, by new fancy paper. No individual, no civilian, would ever do what the government does, which is destroy tons of money, all the time, and replacing it with fresh new money. They collect old fancy paper from banks and replace it with new fancy paper, one-to-one.
So it's not really that bad, to destroy money, as an individual, it would just make more sense to have the government do it instead, so that value is not lost. Particularly, value that belongs to you.
But we're all monetarists (not Keynesians) by now anyway, we all believe in the principle of slowly inflating the currency every year. Destroying a million or a billion even dollars in cash is probably not going to thwart or even much affect the monetarist goal of slow, controlled annual monetary inflation (iow inflating the monetary base).
The wisdom in this, is to understand that since you don't ever own money, there is no sense chasing it. The value of money is only expressed when it is used. And when it is used it is taxed by the company that owns it.
Do you not have the ability to enjoy the subtlety of metaphor and all the various shades of meaning provided by our language. Is everything a dominance contest?
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I have owned my car since I traded for it money that I owned. The guy who sold the car to me paid me the car to buy my money off of me, and in that transaction, he became the new owner of the money I had previously owned.
Excellent example of why I so liked the OP's Bob's explanation:
money is the accounting of transferable incomplete transactions. That is what money actually is.
In your example, you traded some money, the transferable incomplete transaction, for a car. The fella who sold you his car traded his car for your money.
Now what does the guy need, once he's offloaded his car to you? He probably needs food, he probably needs to pay off his mortgage, his electric bill, and he might even need a new car. If you don't have exactly the car he might need, in order to trade straight-up for it, then instead he was open to receiving instead some money for his car. With that money, he can now pay his bills, get some food, and even get himself a new car—one he wants, and not just whatever you happen to have to trade.
Once he gets his new car, with the money he got from you for his car, now the transaction is complete. Thus, money served as a store of value, yes, but more specifically, it served as a transferable incomplete transaction, namely, the transaction of trading his current car for his new car. But it didn't have to occur just with one party. He traded his current car with you for some of your money, and he traded that money with another party for his new car.
It's a brilliant example of not only what money is, but of what a money economy enables us to do, all in one fell swoop. Bravo.