Sin requires hatred for another. He wrote that whoever hates his brother is a murder, doesn't know God and doesn't have eternal life in the same epistle.
Let me correct what I said. While I do believe that "whoever hates his brother is a murderer" and that "no murderer has eternal life abiding in him" I do not believe (
all) sin necessarily has to involve hating someone. Many sins are not specifically about hating people. You would have to distort and stretch "hate" into something beyond its ordinary definition to come up with that idea. I believe there are many nice unsaved people who do not hate anyone. We are not saved because we have a nice disposition but because we believe in Jesus.
If your claim to sinlessness rests on the fact that you do not hate anyone then I could make the same claim. I do not hate anyone either but I think sin is more about what people love than what they hate. Pride loving self more than we do God is what leads to all sins, hatred included.
As I have said it is not enough to avoid certain sins. To be pleasing to God we must reflect the characteristics of His nature that are listed in such scriptures as
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and
Galatians 5:22. These are not merely behaviors. They reside in the thoughts and arise from the motives of the heart.
Jesus always did what pleased the Father because he always exhibited the characteristics of the Father's nature and because He always did only what He saw the Father doing in every circumstance. If Christians
always lived this way
in full measure we would never sin at all. I must say, however, that though I have known many godly people I have never met a person who had no trace at all of the Old Nature. Those who claimed that they were sinless usually turned out to have religious pride which is another deeper kind of sin.
Peter says that believers have been given
promises and
power so THAT WE MIGHT become partakers of the Divine nature (or character). In other words we become partakers only as we lay hold of the promises
4 For by these He has granted to us His precious and magnificent
promises, so that
by them you
may become partakers of the divine nature (
character), having escaped the corruption that is in the world by lust (
2 Peter 1:4).
A promise is a
potential reality. The Land was a promise to Israel but they had to go and possess it. If we immediately attained the whole image of God it would simply be a fact from the first moment we encountered Him. It would not be a promise and there would be no progressive fulfillment.
That the passage is talking about
progressively becoming like Christ is borne our by the following verse:
5 Now for this very reason also, applying all
diligence, in your faith supply
moral excellence, and in your moral excellence,
knowledge, 6 and in your knowledge,
self-control, and in your self-control,
perseverance, and in your perseverance,
godliness, 7 and in your godliness,
brotherly kindness, and in your brotherly kindness,
love (
2 Peter 1:5-7).
The tone of these verses is one of
progressive attainment of the qualities of the Divine nature. It is not instantaneous.
8 For if these qualities are
yours and
are increasing, they render you neither useless nor unfruitful in the true knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ (
2 Peter 1:8)
I believe a person who has been born again will experience an immediate change. However afterward they will
continue to grow as the continue in Christ. Peter does not just say "if these qualities are yours" he also adds "and are
increasing" This points to the
increasing possession of the image of Christ and not to attainment through any one-time experience.