It really depends on what was said (see: Winston Churchill, Disraeli, etc.). But responses to an aggressive messenger should be aimed toward the message and never at the expense of it.It is quite simple. Making ad hominem remarks and personal judgements in a debate is unreasonable.
Also, there's this:
Preceding:I'm not American. I was only making suggestions. I have said this many times.
...No, Anna, I know the meanings of words. You are hiding... Is it because you actually love Muslims and want them to come freely to your country and assimilate into your culture?
So when you write...
Everyone is judgmental and most of us get a little personal now and then...so it's common among people. That's why you're comfortable inferring I'm judgmental and how you said what you did to anna.However, it is common amongst judgemental people.
Agreed."gives the appearance" is a judgement on your part
Also agreed. But it's also hard to miss. I'm betting anna didn't. Or, tell me what's objective and impersonal about telling her that she must love Muslims, etc."You were doing more than simply observing from the outside" is the same.
In any event I'll be kinder to you than you were to her and reiterate that I never called you dishonest. I don't believe you are. I believe you're bias blinded and a little hypocritical, that you're the hero of your narrative, as we all tend to be for ourselves, and that you might want to pause on the point.
But, again, I don't think you're dishonest and I've credited you with an otherwise demonstrably capable mind.
lain: That's how it always is, DR. The other guy is judgmental. We're just giving informed opinion.Just because I point out a fact doesn't mean I have a bias. Judgementalism owns you.
I did say I wasn't calling you dishonest. Twice. I don't tend to apologize for not doing what someone thought I was doing when I wasn't doing it, unless I agree with the judgment, think it's reasonable to mistake me on the point. I think you took an inference that you were bias blinkered or playing coy in the worst possible way and I don't think that's reasonable. But I am sorry you saw it like that.All you had to do was say 'sorry, didn't mean it like that'
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