JWs are partly correct to say these can refer to the common grave of man where the body goes. They are wrong to fail to recognize the semantical range of meaning that also includes the place of the departed spirit-soul (temporary before lake of fire or heaven in OT).
Likewise, they are also wrong to think soul is a temporal vs everlasting thing. The word can mean the whole person (many souls drowned at sea) or the immaterial personality of man.
Are you guilty of the same rookie mistake?
The point is that scripture gives it that men are unconscious when asleep, when dead, and when in the lake of fire (consumed).
Heb 12:29 For our God is a consuming fire.
The only ones who can live in the consuming fire of God are the ones given immortality-
1Ti 6:14 That thou keep this commandment without spot, unrebukeable, until the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ:
1Ti 6:15 Which in his times he shall shew, who is the blessed and only Potentate, the King of kings, and Lord of lords;
1Ti 6:16 Who only hath immortality, dwelling in the light which no man can approach unto; whom no man hath seen, nor can see: to whom be honour and power everlasting. Amen.
Men can not see God this side of immortality because their eyes would burn out.
God is not invisible, He is full of light.
Those who are not immortal would perish very quickly in the presence of the creator God as the fire that He is.
The Holy Spirit is but the light which eminates from Him, not another person.
If you want to follow your extra biblical books you will never know the truth.
LA