I was going to post this earlier, but drew back. I think it’s an excellent reply to your claims. So, keep in mind that it’s content wasn’t directed at you, but it carries words that I think are valuable.
Before I do this, I want to express that I have been worst of all in this area, and I have failed God miserably about this specific point. I have transgressed God’s call that we let go of malice, derision, strife, arguing and factions.
I treasure Jesus and Scripture with a desire to be a helpful person to Jesus. Teachings or doctrine are important. Jesus even blasted a few times throughout scripture. However, Jesus never derided people and quarreled with them for long periods of time that led to Him submerging an individual in His condescension. He expressed facts and backed them up, but knew when people were simply of a spirit of quarreling. He, Himself, avoided the spirit of quarreling at all costs.
All human beings are prideful, except for Jesus. Jesus managed to address people harshly, but with hope in his every word. Even when he expressed that the Pharisees were in danger of hellfire, He used the words; “How can you escape”. He even expressed hope in His deepest warnings!
I have come to the conclusion that there is no hope in endless disputing. I have also realized that there are people that enjoy strife and encourage others to partake of their ways. This trap seems nice at first and even brings comradery. Unfortunately, the camradery comes with a cost. Self justification to trample scripture becomes a standard practice. Within the fruits of the flesh spoken of in Galatians are warnings that the very spirit that is contrary to the Holy Spirit, is made of quarreling and factions.
I’m letting go of this chapter of my life and realizing that delivery is as meaningful as the content and accuracy of the message being delivered. If strife becomes a perpetual pursuit and quarreling with spurts of injurious words towards fellow believers becomes a norm, then all of the best intentions become nothing more than best intentions that are actually wickedness realized.
I repent of my contribution to the strife throughout my life and relinquish my participation in it as much as possible.
What finalizes my opinions on this?
Your every response is a perpetual chest pounding parade laced with the encouraged dismissal of biblical treatment of fellow human beings.
You deride with rhetoric that is antagonistic, opinionated and overtly grandstanding.
When an opponent of yours is kind, you correct them.
When an opponent of yours is angry, you speak inflammatory words towards them.
When an opponent of yours is correct, you attempt to belittle them on a personal level.
When an opponent of yours takes on your demeanor, you call them wicked and deride them as biblically incompetent, hypocritical and wickedly motivated.
The only way to get along with you is to affirm your every word and ignore all scripture that teaches us to be self-controlled, Loving, encouraging and devoted towards humility.
A person can speak to the many people here that adopt your same spirit. All who speak to you and others here, like you, can have the Holy Spirit’s leading to Love you and others, despite your similar ways of speaking abusively and mocking fellow believers for expressing their hearts.