What did he know about her heart? That it was wicked? (Jer 17:9). She was a sinner in need of a savior and Jesus ministered to her soul. "If you only knew the gift God has for you and who you are speaking to, you would ask me, and I would give you living water (Jn 4:10)."
If only she knew. :noway: People need to know. It is not ok to respond to God in sin and rebellion (Ec 7:9; Mt 5:22; Ro 12:19).
He knew that she was aware that her life was a mess. She was in a state of rebellion against God, as shown by her lifestyle - she was going from man to man to man. That she was "looking for love in all the wrong places" so to speak. That she did not know how to get out of the mess she was in. Regardless of that, what I am talking about is the way Jesus
handled the situation. He did not jump in there with the Pharisees and quote every OT scripture to prove to her she was a sinner. Instead, he said nothing to her. He did not accuse her, although of all those in the crowd there that day, He was the only one who really had the right to do so. He established a relationship of caring
first, he gave her hope,
first, then he spoke the truth to her "Go and sin no more". He did not quote the OT. to her, although he could have gone on and on about it. She already knew all that. He did the same with the woman at the well. She already knew that she was a mess, as evidenced by the fact that she did not go to the well at the same time as everybody else. Again, Jesus did not quote the OT to her- she already knew she had a problem. He established a relationship with her
first, he answered her questions
first, then he told her about God's gift, last, he told her to go and sin no more. He did not put the cart before the horse. She was used to people telling her she was an evil woman - she was used to telling
herself that as well. Jesus turned her focus from the sin to the answer. It is my belief that this is the pattern for evangelism we are to follow. You befriend someone, you care about them and their problems, and you share
with them, not preach
at them. Yes, people need to know the gospel, but let's not make the same mistakes as people in the past - you don't ask people to change their behavior, you just share the love of Christ and let the Holy Spirit do the rest. He is the one who will convict the world (i.e. people) of their sin. Jesus did not sit around telling the disciples what a bunch of losers they were, although they
really were a bunch of misfits. He became their friend first, then their teacher. That's my story and I'm stick'in to it!
Glad to hear it.
See:
Does God Elect Everyone?
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