Your lying example didn' work out so good did it?
Lets see, stealing o save the life of an innocent...
Maybe you need to take some napkins from a resteraunt to stop the bleeding of a person that was hit by a car on the sidewalk out front. Is it stealing? Probably not since any reasonable person would offer what assistance they can to save a life.
How about stealing a loaf of bread to feed your children. Times are tough so this may happen. Is it stealing to take a loaf of bread from the grocery store to feed your family? Yes. Is it wrong? Yes. Why? Because you didn't ask. Had you asked, the manager of the store may have given it to you. Also, did you ask the local church for help? Did you check with the local missions? Did you talk to friends and family? Heck, did you check with the welfare office? You have a great many options available to you to feed your family so stealing should never need to be an option.
Do you have any examples of such a situation?
You are a 15 year old boy living with your father and 6 year old sister in a caste-based society. Your family is a member of the lowest caste. Civil war breaks out between the castes, and your village is destroyed in battle. All of your family dies as a result, save for you and your sister, since you manage to escape to the surrounding woods during the violence.
You subsist on the land for a few months, but winter is coming and foraging is becoming steadily more difficult. Neither of you is getting enough to eat. Weeks pass. You haven't seen anyone else in the woods. Your last meal was 2 days ago, and that was a handful of sour berries and 2 insects. It becomes clear that your sister is very weak and near death. If she doesn't get food in the next couple of hours, she will die.
You cannot risk going back into the remains of your village because you will be shot on sight if seen. What's more, your sister is too weak to move, and you cannot travel to safer territory for help because doing so would leave her alone for too long, surely leading to her death.
In a frantic search for food, you happen upon an camp that is empty, but clearly not abandoned. There is no solid indication who the camp belongs to -- It may belong to enemy soldiers, enemy civilians, or to someone as desperate as yourself. All you can surmise is that whoever is camped here left in a hurry, but is almost certainly coming back.
You see a locked, loosely woven wicker basket. The basket is so constructed that you can see that there is food inside. You pick the lock and take the food, saving your sister's life, at least for the time being.
Now, in this situation, property was taken without permission or right.
Is this a case of:
Not stealing?
Stealing, which is absolutely morally wrong and a sin in this and every case?
Stealing, which is morally neutral and may be a sin based on the circumstances?
By the way, I picked stealing to avoid obfuscation - there is a direct, unambiguous commandment against it. I didn't expect anyone in the forum to admit that lying is morally neutral.