Though I more or less agree with you on this one, at the same time; I'm not surprised the issue you take (with the proposed solutions of some) revolves around you.
Yours is very typical of the "addict."
You may have been been helped by a rehab addiction program in some critical way in the area of external substance abuse but obviously, you still have major addiction issues you have yet to deal with.
Perhaps out of not knowing how...being that theory and how to do not often meet.
External drug abuse is nothing more than an internal "drug" abuse issue eventually leading to an addiction to an external one.
Emotions are chemical. Emotions allowed to dominate beyond any norm are a form of drug abuse.
Yours is ever obvious.
You still need help.
Just about your every post is ever one negative over-reaction or another to someone.
Allow this post to shame you; for what little good that often proves to be, thus, my agreement with you on your above.
Or allow it to challenge you to reflect on the fact that you have some serious hostility issues you have yet to apply the Cross of Christ to, that could liberate you to the joy in Him that is every Believer's.
I hope for you, that you choose the latter of these two...
That you choose to walk in the reality of the fact that...
Galatians 2:20 I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.
Romans 6:6 Knowing this, that our old man is crucified with him, that the body of sin might be destroyed, that henceforth we should not serve sin.
Galatians 5:24 And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.
Galatians 6:14 But God forbid that I should glory, save in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom the world is crucified unto me, and I unto the world.
The best towards you, as to this...