Same here, one thing the web has helped with defending truths, at least I, seldom had to defend against attack. Christians aren't doing this in any body of believers I've known in the real world. There's an apparent unanimity in the Reformed Christian community I've always been a part of, tares not having a pulpit. In fact, I've never seen the junk on message boards in real life. But it has also pointed out, to me, that, like that real life community, you present the truth to the unsaved and leave it there, don't argue back and forth over it. Truth is accepted, or rejected. You can try to persuade, but, in the final analysis, you aren't going to debate somebody into salvation, who's obstinate in their error. What I see on the web is the opposite of spiritual seeking, the false not seeking truth, rather seeking to suck others into error, or a lot of derailed blabbering of amateur philosophers who spend too much time on crackpot websites. What they don't understand, and couldn't, is that you can't really suck in a true Christian of any maturity. It's not possible, all a wasted effort. Most of what goes on here is a whole lot to do over nothing, people who enjoy listening to themselves, more than anything else, narcissists and sociopaths of no real congregation, trolling. But we works in progress? You know it! The Lord be with you.
1 Timothy 6
1 Let as many servants as are under the yoke count their own masters worthy of all honour, that the name of God and his doctrine be not blasphemed.
2 And they that have believing masters, let them not despise them, because they are brethren; but rather do them service, because they are faithful and beloved, partakers of the benefit. These things teach and exhort.
3 If any man teach otherwise, and consent not to wholesome words, even the words of our Lord Jesus Christ, and to the doctrine which is according to godliness;
4 He is proud, knowing nothing, but doting about questions and strifes of words, whereof cometh envy, strife, railings, evil surmisings,
5 Perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds, and destitute of the truth, supposing that gain is godliness: from such withdraw thyself.
2 Timothy 3
1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.