"Social media in general, is ruining people." I definitely agree with you, and I think a good scientific case can be made for it. This young generation now is the first in human history to grow up with smart phones. It's smart phones more than computers IMO that have changed the way people look at, process, and experience life. Everything is experienced through a filter now. It's not just living in the moment of that experience, it's the constant "on" button in the mind that says, take a photo of that, send it to snapchat, check for likes. It's classical conditioning, and we're doing it to ourselves and doing it willingly. It's scary. Little kids less than two years old know how to get to different apps on their parents' phones, and if you watch, you'll see them pose for mom and dad or whoever and then they'll say "let me see." They're already being conditioned for that instant gratification.