HappyCetaran sent me this nice message and she's an atheist.
I am sorry if I have hurt your feelings and I apologize for Persephone66's untoward comment directed at you. I understand a woman's battle with her looks. Trust me, I have my share of secrets that I have to endure on a daily basis to try to keep some semblance of my looks up. That is the curse, it seems, of being born a woman.
That photo I use in my avatar is quite old, and I am not that "spry" anymore. Haha. If you want to get more depressed, you should see my younger sister. That little b*tch does not seem to age at all, and she is only five years younger than me.
I don't know why you think you are not an attractive woman. From this photo you have up now and the other one where you are wearing a red blouse and smiling, you look fine to me, especially for a gal of 53!
Hell, woman, you got your sh*t together in my book!
So stop worrying and take care of yourself and be healthy. We want you back on this forum as a beloved member, and seeing you in this state distresses me.