1PeaceMaker
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There is a need on this forum to dispel some dangerous rape myths and put an end to the confusion. Why? Because with hundreds of posters here - some with religious ideas that appear to support certain types of rapists - these rape myths might lead some men to think that the rapes being committed are not as harmful as they really are.
Rape has nothing to do with love or desire, it's a species of murder and leaves a heavy path of destruction in it's wake.
That is a dangerous assumption because it takes no real life variables into account. Does this woman have an invisible immune-system or heart problem? Does she have diabetes or AIDS?
All rape involves two microbiomes becoming cross-contaminated and some degree of injury or abrasion, even if only microscopic - but enough to allow the entry of life -threatening pathogens.
And it's not as if a rapist will be made to consider if he just handled money or filthy hand rails before attacking his victim.
Not all women are universally designed for all men. Small women (small is a term relating to internal invisible factors) shouldn't be set upon and forced by large men (large is also not something that can be determined exclusively by height or weight). But beyond the attack and the blunt force damage - even the children that are produced by that rape, being larger than she is designed to carry, could be a threat to her well being during pregnancy and birth, never mind the other potentials for damage from a larger person in the attack.
Women are created to be loved and gently cared for, not forced. Women must respond with arousal physically to avoid certain types of damage, as well.
Frigidity is not physically healthy, and raped is the most frigid way to be in an encounter. The likelihood for infections will go up dramatically. The pain will be also potentially very difficult to put up with.
Some women (for very practical medical reasons) can't even have relations with a gentle partner in the best conditions due to pain issues, and those women will be all the more traumatized by rape.
A rapist cannot see this on the outside. All he might see is a pretty young women, not realizing she's a mess elsewhere out of view.
So many times that is not true! Many couples must abstain for the sake of the unborn child. The point of avoiding contact is because of vulnerability to infection some pregnancies have, or because disturbing an irritable uterus could result in miscarriage, stillbirth or premature labor.
While I'm sure that rape would be in some ways scarier and more damaging for children, in other ways it could be much scarier for a woman who knows there is a good chance she will be dead when he is done. She also may have health conditions making rape more risky than for a healthy child. (I hate the comparison for so many reasons - but I can't dispel the myth without addressing it!) That's not something a rapist can determine or excuse himself with. And rape apologists should refrain from misinforming rapists.
And frankly, rape is torture to anyone and feels like the threat of death. It can cause life altering PTSD, which can actually grow over time when compounded with other traumatic events.
Telling people to suck it up and move on is actually going to be potentially very mentally damaging, especially if you put the blame on them at the same time for what happened. In any way.
Rape has nothing to do with love or desire, it's a species of murder and leaves a heavy path of destruction in it's wake.
That is a dangerous assumption because it takes no real life variables into account. Does this woman have an invisible immune-system or heart problem? Does she have diabetes or AIDS?
All rape involves two microbiomes becoming cross-contaminated and some degree of injury or abrasion, even if only microscopic - but enough to allow the entry of life -threatening pathogens.
And it's not as if a rapist will be made to consider if he just handled money or filthy hand rails before attacking his victim.
Not all women are universally designed for all men. Small women (small is a term relating to internal invisible factors) shouldn't be set upon and forced by large men (large is also not something that can be determined exclusively by height or weight). But beyond the attack and the blunt force damage - even the children that are produced by that rape, being larger than she is designed to carry, could be a threat to her well being during pregnancy and birth, never mind the other potentials for damage from a larger person in the attack.
Women are created to be loved and gently cared for, not forced. Women must respond with arousal physically to avoid certain types of damage, as well.
Frigidity is not physically healthy, and raped is the most frigid way to be in an encounter. The likelihood for infections will go up dramatically. The pain will be also potentially very difficult to put up with.
Some women (for very practical medical reasons) can't even have relations with a gentle partner in the best conditions due to pain issues, and those women will be all the more traumatized by rape.
A rapist cannot see this on the outside. All he might see is a pretty young women, not realizing she's a mess elsewhere out of view.
So many times that is not true! Many couples must abstain for the sake of the unborn child. The point of avoiding contact is because of vulnerability to infection some pregnancies have, or because disturbing an irritable uterus could result in miscarriage, stillbirth or premature labor.
While I'm sure that rape would be in some ways scarier and more damaging for children, in other ways it could be much scarier for a woman who knows there is a good chance she will be dead when he is done. She also may have health conditions making rape more risky than for a healthy child. (I hate the comparison for so many reasons - but I can't dispel the myth without addressing it!) That's not something a rapist can determine or excuse himself with. And rape apologists should refrain from misinforming rapists.
And frankly, rape is torture to anyone and feels like the threat of death. It can cause life altering PTSD, which can actually grow over time when compounded with other traumatic events.
Telling people to suck it up and move on is actually going to be potentially very mentally damaging, especially if you put the blame on them at the same time for what happened. In any way.
